Tuesday, May 6, 2008

"Re'ay V'Anyainu": Basic Training - Audio Shiur


Here is the latest shiur by Reb Yerachmiel from the Baltimore Community Kollel Tefillah Chaburah.

In this fourth and final shiur on berchas "Re'ay V'Anyainu" in Shemoneh Esrei, Reb Yerachmiel reviewed the somewhat unintuitive yet widely accepted focus of this bracha, and explained the various meanings and kavanos of the bracha word-for-word, taking us through a "basic training" of sorts and arming us with "sword and shield" in an effort to confront, combat and conquer all problems, evils and enemies which are so rampant in this final galus.

You can CLICK HERE to either listen to the shiur (by left clicking) or downloading it (by left clicking and choosing "Save Target As.")

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HaRav Elazar M. Kenig Visiting the States


Received by e-mail:


We are happy to announce the arrival of

HaRav Elazar Mordechai Kenig, shlita,
the Rav and Spiritual Leader of
Nachal Novea Breslev Tsfat

The Rav will be visiting the States from
May 6th until May 20th.

For more information call 845-425-6274.


-Dixie Yid

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Monday, May 5, 2008

Bilvavi Author Availble to speak in US/CA in Early Elul/September


I received the text below via e-mail. This sounds like a great opportunity to bring Rav Shwartz to your community. Those who have learned the seforim know that his way of teaching practical avodas Hashem is something new, and yet yet it is seems that his approach was always there. Hopefully even more people will benefit from his teachings on this trip than last time, which went exceedingly well, from everything I heard.

I am pleased to announce that we, in the United States will, IY"H, have the privilage of having Rav Itamar Shwartz, shltia, the author of the Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh seforim, available to speak at Mosdos, Shuls, Yeshivos, Seminaries, etc. this year in early Elul/September.

His trip last year was a tremendous success. The Rav was invited to numerous locations in New York, New Jersey and Maryland. Baalabatim, college students, Yeshivaleit, Kollel Yungerleit, seminary students, ladies, Chassidim, Sephardim and Modern Orthodox have all benefited from Rav Shwartz's practical approach to actually attaining Deveikus with Hashem. He tailors every speech to the exact needs and nature of the people to whom he is speaking. You can listen (for free) to the shiurim he gave during his last visit here. The upcoming trip will not be geographically limited and he will be available to travel to Mosdos anywhere in the United States and Canada.

Rav Shwartz speaks in a clear and easy-to-understand Hebrew.There will be a speaking fee. Also, even if we have spoken in the past, please contact me again about this opportunity in your community/Shul/Mosad.

If you are interested in having Rav Shwartz speak at your institution, please contact me by e-mail or at 516-668-6397. I look forward to hearing from you!

-Dixie Yid

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Sunday, May 4, 2008

"You Shall be Holy." - Command or Promise?


There are two questions on the second pasuk in Parshas Kedoshim, Vayikra 19:2, "דַּבֵּר אֶל-כָּל-עֲדַת בְּנֵי-יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְאָמַרְתָּ אֲלֵהֶם--קְדֹשִׁים תִּהְיוּ," "Speak to the whole congregation of Israel, and say to them, 'You shall be holy.'" I'll bring down the approach of the Satmar Rov, Rav Yoel Teitelbaum in Divrei Yoel, and of the Ohr Hachaim Hakadosh on these two questions: 1) Why does the same pasuk say both "דַּבֵּר" and "וְאָמַרְתָּ?" The First implies a harsh message and the second term implies a gentle message. It seems contradictory to find both terms used in the same pasuk! And 2) What is the pshat in the words "קְדֹשִׁים תִּהְיוּ," "You Shall be holy."?

The Satmar Rov says, based on the story with the Nesius of Rabban Gamliel and Reb Elazar ben Azaria in Brachos 28a, that the Shechina, Divine Presence only dwells in a community where everyone is equally sincere as they appear to be on the outside, and no one is living a a lie, where they appear to be very religious while they are not that way on the inside. He also said that the pasuk "קְדֹשִׁים תִּהְיוּ," "You shall be holy" is not a command, but rather, a promise! Hashem is promising the Jewish people that they will indeed be holy, and will be worthy of being called "תוכו כברו," equally as sincere on the inside as they appear to be on the outside. Therefore, pshat in the both harsh and gentles words used in that pasuk is to reflect the mixed message that the pasuk contains. On one hand it says "דַּבֵּר" since it is a bit of a harsh message to hear that the Shechina will not dwell among them unless they are totally sincere inside and out. Yet, it's a gentle and comforting message to hear the promise that they will be worthy to be called "holy" and be as sincere as is demanded of them. And it is that gentle and comforting message that is found in the kind word "וְאָמַרְתָּ."

Another interesting take on these questions is the Ohr Hachaim Hakadosh. He says that the pasuk "קְדֹשִׁים תִּהְיוּ," "You shall be holy" is coming to add a positive commandment, a mitzvas aseh, to be holy and avoid all of the Arayos, the forbidden relationships mentioned at the end of Parshas Acharei Mos and in Parshas Kedoshim. So now, not only would a person transgress the applicable "lav," prohibition, but he will now be over on an "Issur Aseh," a prohibition derived from a positive commandment, as well. On the other hand, one will now be fulfilling a positive commandment when he abstains from engaging in a forbidden relationship. Whereas without that mitzvas Aseh of "Kedoshim Ti'hiyu," one would simply be "doing nothing" by avoiding the prohibition. So that's the meaning of the harsh language of "דַּבֵּר." It's a harsh message to know that there is now an additional sin involved in these forbidden relationships. On the other hand, it's a big chizuk to know that by avoiding those avieros, we can now fulfill an additional mitzva. And that's the reason for the gentle language of "וְאָמַרְתָּ."

-Dixie Yid

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Friday, May 2, 2008

Satisfaction from Child Raising and Housekeeping - Part 1

IY"H, I will try making these guest posts by Rabbi Chaim Morgenstern a regular feature of the Dixie Yid site every Friday. Thank you to Rabbi Morgenstern for sharing these insights into parenting with us!
SATISFACTION FROM CHILD RAISING AND HOUSEKEEPING
By Rabbi Chaim Morgenstern
Part 1


The Value of Child Raising

The mitzvah of Chinuch Habanim generates a special endearment from Hashem towards parents. The Torah writes that Avraham Avinu was beloved by Hashem because “He will command his children and household to keep the ways of Hashem…” (Bereishis 18:19, Rashi ad loc.). Rav Elya Lopian comments, that even though Avraham had already passed ten nisyonos and kept the entire Torah including the mitzvos d’Rabanan, nevertheless, his endearment to Hashem was attributed to the merit of chinuch habanim - passing the Torah tradition on to his progeny (Lev Eliyahu ad loc.).

The Value of a Child

Rav Yaakov Kaminetsky offers a valuable insight into child raising.
The Rama rules that a Jewish infant should not nurse from a non-Jewish woman if there is any possibility of obtaining milk from a Jewish wet nurse (Yoreh Deah 71:67). The Vilna Gaon writes that the source of this halacha is the Midrash which states that Moshe Rabbeinu refused to nurse from an Egyptian woman because he would one day speak with the Shechinah. Rav Yaakov asked, “If the reason that Moshe Rabbeinu did not nurse from a non-Jew was because he would one day speak with the Shechinah, how can we derive from him the halacha for every other Jewish child? From this, we learn a fundamental of Jewish education: Every Jewish child must be educated as if he was a potential Moshe Rabbeinu who will one day speak with the Shechinah” (Reb Yaakov, Artscroll, p. 330).

Think a moment. If a prophet would tell you that your son has the potential to be another Chofetz Chaim, or your daughter would be the wife of a Rosh Yeshiva, would you complain about child raising difficulties and challenges? On the contrary, every act of childcare would be done with extreme pleasure and simcha.

Additionally, parents should also realize that the time and energy invested into any one child is not only limited to that child, but also extends to all their future generations. This is because when children who are raised properly become parents, they will to pass on the Torah tradition that they received from their parents to their children, who in turn will continue to pass on this tradition to their own children.

For example, if parents have five children and each of these children bears five children, in five generations the first parents would have 3,125 descendants.
Thus, parents’ investment in a single child can bear fruits that have an impact on thousands of their offspring.

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Thursday, May 1, 2008

How to Tap Into Deveikus - At ASJ Featuring R' Micha Golshevsky


A Simple Jew: Question & Answer With Rabbi Micha Golshevsky - Tapping Into Deveykus

-Dixie Yid

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What Is It With These Products With Yetzer Hara-dik names?!


First there was Zima, lasciviousness.

Now Pepsi's has a new drink called Ta'ava!

-Dixie Yid

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How to Keep One's Children on the Derech


I have one Briach Hatichon, one unifying factor, behind virtually every detail of every decision involved in raising my children, from the "big decisions" to the "little decisions" like how to speak or how to discipline in dozens of situations each day. This is that live with the reality there is no guarantee that my children, like many other children in the frum community, will decide to remain frum in their teenage or adult years. Therefore, I am always mindful, when deciding how to do anything involved in parenting, of the ever-present question, "Will doing this make my children more or less likely to stay on the derech?"

You may be screaming at your monitor: Dixie Yid! I am surprised at you! Shouldn't there be a little bit more to the Meleches Hashem, G-d's work, of parenting, than doing so based on merely trying keep your kids frum?! Isn't that setting the bar kind of low? What about shooting for something higher? For instance, shouldn't you be trying to raise your kids to big ovdei Hashem, Talmidei Chachamim, Bnos Torah and Bnos aliya?! Raise your kids to be big ba'alei Avodah! Why settle for constantly focusing on just avoiding something bad? Explain yourself Dixie Yid!

Dixie Yid responds: Dear reader, your assumptions are wrong! If you think there's any other way to keep your kids frum at all other than shooting for the stars in Avodas Hashem, then you're making a big mistake. As I see it, the only way my children will stay on the Derech is if they see that living Yiddishkeit is, by far, the best way to live. If you think that there even exists a way to ensure that one's children will just stay "regular frum," then you're in for a big surprise. If you shoot for the starts, with Hashem's help, your children will choose to continue being frum and hopefully much more than "just frum."

From my daily interactions with my kids, I want them to see that I love them and that there's nothing I'd rather do more than things in Yiddishkeit. As the Aish Kodesh says in Chovas Hatalmidim, the soul of a human being craves excitement. And that desire will be fulfilled. The soul cannot tolerate a vacuum, so that desire for excitement will be satisfied. If I can create an environment for my children whereby they have the greatest chance of seeing that the excitement and fulfillment their souls desire through Yiddishkeit, then IY"H, they'll seek it there.

However, if my children see that excitement is to be found at ball games, in front of a TV screen, at concerts, theaters, shopping malls or furniture stores, then even if I'm frum, they will seek their soul's excitement through things other than Yiddishkeit. And then, frumkeit will seem like an afterthought at best, only observed out of guilt, at best, or an unwanted burden to be cast off as soon as feasible, at worst.

This plays its self out not only in "big" ways, like I've been talking about in the last two paragraphs, but also in small things. If I have a choice between taking away a snack, or taking away a child's participation in kiddush, or the Shabbos seuda, as a consequence for some infraction, I choose the snack. Or if I'm considering whether or not to force, by threat of punishment, some mitzvah, like davening, on one of my children, I'd rather choose to let my child forgo the davening for the time being (even a long time being) rather than have such unpleasant feelings become associated with davening.

There are no guarantees with one's children. Raising them to Torah requires great care and a lot of davening.

May Hashem help that my, and all of Klal Yisroel's children, will find their excitement in Avodas Hashem and stay on and grow in Avoad Hashem ad bias Goel Tzedek Bimeheira Biyameinu.

-Dixie Yid

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Yisrael Campbell's Comedy on Ari Abramowitz's Show - Video-



Check out this latest addition of Tuesday Night Live with Ari Abramowitz and Jeremy Gimpel from TheLandofIsrael.com. They've got the comedy of Yisrael Campbell on this episode. It's very funny! Enjoy!

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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

How the Mitzvah of Matzah Repairs Blemishes in All Areas of "Eating"


This idea comes from the Koidinov Hagaddah, compiled from all of the Admorim of Koidinov by the current Koidinover Rebbe, Rav Yaakov Tzvi Mayer Erlich, Shltia, D"H "Ha lachma Anya." I have to thank Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin for indirectly causing me to have the zechus of getting ahold of this haggadah.

As we make our way out of Mitzrayim, Egypt, and towards Matan Torah, the giving of the Torah, it is worthwhile to think about what the Galus, exile, of Mitzrayim was there to repair.

The first blemish man created within himself was in the realm of eating, when Adam and Chava ate from the Eitz Hada'as Tov v'ra, the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Bad. After that, the generation of the flood caused another blemish in mankind, and after them, the generation of the dispersion caused another blemish. Rav Aharon of Koidinov, the grandson of the first Koidinover Rebbe, who was the grandson of Rav Mordechai of Lechovitch said that the purpose of the Egyptial Exile was to repair this blemish in the area of eating. And that Jewish boys being thrown into the Nile repaired the blemish caused by the generation of the flood. And by the Jews working with mortar and bricks, the blemish caused by the generation of the dispersion, whose sin was through building the tower of Bavel, was repaired. (This part is based on Likutei Torah by the Arizal, Parshas Shmos). Rav Aharon also taught, from the Sidur of the Arizal, that by the mitzva of eating matza, we repair the sin of Adam eatinf from the Eitz HaDaas.

And he teaches that this same tikun is applicable in our generation. When we eat matzah, we can repair all types of blemishes that we have brought upon ourselves that come under the rubric of "eating."

He points out that certainly problems with actual eating fall into this category. Also, he says that problems with kedusha in the area of marital intamacy are included in the concept of "eating." We see this from the fact that the pasuk uses this the concept of eating as a euphamism with regard to Potifar's appointment of Yosef over all of his affairs except, "halechem asher hu ocheil," the bread that he eats (Breishis 39:6). Also, he says that speech is part of the concept of eating, which can be seen from the fact that "speaking" is also used as a euphamism of martial initmacy, which, as we just said, is included in the concept of "eating." This can be seen from the fact that the Mishna, in Kesubos 13a, says "ראוה מדברת עם אחד," which Rav Asi there translates as "נבעלה."

And by eating matza on the night of the Seder, one is mesaken the blemishes one has caused through the three categories of activity, which fall under the rubric of "eating;" actual eating, marital intimacy and speech.

And this is the pshat in the phrase, "הא לחמנא עניא די אכלו אבהתנא בארעא דמצרים," "This is the bread of affliction that our fathers ate in the land of Mitzrayim," that we say at the beginning of the Seder. The word "ארעא," "land" actually comes from the root meaning "רצון," "desire," as in the phrase used to refer to Shalosh Sheudos, "רעוא דרעווין," which means "רצון שברצון," "desire of desires."

We also know that Mitzrayim actually refers to meitzarim, which means "borders" or limitations. So when we say that our fathers ate this bread in the land of mitzrayim, we're also saying that we used to eat bread (engage in the 3 types of activities which fall under the category called "eating") when our ratzon, our desires, were in meitzarim, limited and bound. And it was this level of stunted desire that caused us to be blemished in the way we ate, were involved in the marital relationship and spoke.

And it is through the mitzvah of achilas Matzah, eating matzah that we can completely repair these blemishes that exist within us in the areas called "eating."

May it be Hashem's will that through the mitzva of achilas Matzlah, both in the Pesach that we just completed, and the Pesachim to come, that we fulfill the mitzva of eating matzah with all of its tikunim and desired benefits!

-Dixie Yid

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Tuesday, April 29, 2008

My Three Year Old Son, The Philosopher


Exchange this morning with my son:

My Son: Where's John (a workman he'd just seen)?

Me: He's outside.

My son: But we can't see him.

Me: You're right. We can't see him but we know he's there. It's just like Hashem. Can we see Hashem?

My son: No.

Me: But do we know He's there?

My son: Yeah!

Me: Right, we know he's there because he made us.

My son: You and me, right?

Me: Right. He made us and he gives us our food.

My son: Yum Yum. And he gives us lollypops!

Me: Right, he gives us our food every single day.

My son: Who? John?

Me

-Dixie Yid

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What to Daven For Before You Give Into A Ta'avah


When it comes to the big avodah of changing over one's desires from the desires of his superficial self to wanting the same things that Hashem wants, one should realize that this is a long process and it is accomplished step-by-step, and not all at once.

In Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh, Vol 2, Ch. 26, Rav Shwartz writes that it is a major avoda to go from the world of "Ratzon Atzmo," wanting what one's external self wants, to the world of the "Ratzon Hashem," where "Retzoneinu la'asos ratzoncha," our only desire is to do Hashem's will.

Since this is such a big process, one must first start by clarifying which of one's desires are truly his inner desires, which are his external desires, and which are the will of Hashem. He says that there are three levels within a person. 1) There's the the Chelek HaEloki, the G-dly soul. 2) We also have a true, inner self. The desires of this part of one's self are one's true desires, and are the same as Hashem's will. 3) A person also has an external "I," whose desires do not necessarily coincide with the Ratzon Hashem at all. This part of the self is also called the "Nefesh Habahamis," the animal soul.

Rav Shwartz takes the example of a person who wants to eat due to ta'ava, a mere desire to eat. He is not referring to the eating that one does in order to live. Rather, he's talking about the kind of eating that people do just for the enjoyment of it. At first, a person is unlikely to be able to totally stop himself from eating out of ta'ava. Therefore, he suggests that a first step would be to begin to clarify to one's self which desires originate in his true inner self, and which are merely the desires of the external "I," the Nefesh Habahamis.

He has an amazing hisbonenus idea. He suggests that rather than jumping straight into fulfilling the ta'ava, as usual, he should briefly talk to himself about the true nature of his desires before he begins to eat whatever it is that he desires to eat. I'll translate this quick hisbonenus here:

I know that my inner self does not want to eat this, but my external self wants to eat it. I know that my superficial self still rules over me more than my inner self. And since this is my level, and my external side rules over me more than my inner side, and since right now is not a good time to do battle with my external side because I do not have the inner strength to do battle, I will now eat this food! But one thing is clear to me: My true desire is not to eat it, but I feel that I am not able to to stand against my external desire, and therefore I will eat!
The amazing and surprising thing about this is that it recognizes that it's not all or nothing. Growing into a person who want to do the ratzon Hashem and doesn't want anything physical for its own sake takes time and effort and it is a step-by-step process. This type of hisbonenus he suggests takes that into account and helps us start at the beginning, by clarifying to ourselves what really is right and what our true desires are and where they come from.

IY"H, may we be zocheh to apply these teachings and may these ideas help us clarify ourselves to ourselves on the road to a life of Kirvas Hashem.

-Dixie Yid

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Monday, April 28, 2008

The Miracle of Jewish History - Video With Great Quotes



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Our Escapist Tendencies - Getting to Know Yourself


I have written before about people's desire to distract themselves from their own desire for greater holiness and their dissatisfaction with their life without it. I wrote about wanting to distract one's self from Shabbos and from one's spiritual life in general, using movies/TV/ipods/novels/etc here and here.

This is expresed also in the way that the priests used to sacrifice people's children to the Molech. While the priests would kill their children, other priests would beat drums and play loud music, so that people should not hear the screaming of their children calling out for their help, which might cause them to change their mind about what they were doing.

Similarly, when our neshamos are crying out to us for help, we don't like the discomfort of hearing that inner pain. So we distract ourselves from hearing our inner voice by drowning it out with ipod music, movies, novels, or workaholic-ism.

If we want to take the first step towards living the life we are supposed to live, rather than distracting ourselves from that purpose with all of our twenty-first century distractions, then we must first recognize that we do not need all of our gadgets and distractsions merely for their enjoyment or necessity. Rather, we must recognize that, to the extent that this is the case, they are really there to drown out the voice of our neshamos.

Once we attain this self-recognition, we can begin to do a kind of hisbonenus before we begin to engage in one of these entertaining distractions. One might say to himself before opening up a novel or turning on his ipod during a train or bus ride: "The true inner "I," my neshoma, wants to serve you, Hashem. But the superficial "I" doesn't want to think about things like that. I don't feel that I have the wherewithall to win in this battle right now, so I am going to do XYZ to take my mind off of what I should really being doing right now. But I recognize that it is only a distraction, and not the deeper desire of who I truly am inside."

This brief thought is, IMHO, in line with the teachings of the Bilvavi Mishkan Evneh. IY"H, may we merit to recognize our escapist tendencies and get to truly know ourselves, as a first step towards "getting to know" Hashem.

-Dixie Yid

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Join a Trip to Mezibuz for Shavuos!


Received by E-Mail from Rabbi Tal Zwecker:

The Holy Ba'al Shem Tov is buried in the Ukraine in Mezibuz we are
planning on trying to organize a trip together with the Clevelander
Rebbe Shlit"a on Shavous to the Holy Baal Shem Tov in Mezibuz on his
yarzeit.

If you would like to join us please email me or call me at 054-842-4725 or 02-992-1218 in the USA voip 516-320-6022.

Even if you cant join us and cant send in a donation send me a kvitel
as I did in Lizhensk ALL kvitels will be taken regardless.

If you would like to send us your kvitel a note with requests for
health blessings and parnassa etc. with your name and mother's name
and details together with your tax deductible contrbution mail it to:

Mosdos Cleveland 11 Har Sinai St Ra'anana Israel

The Rebbe Reb Melech and other tzadikim explain that a donation or
pidyon helps the kvitel be accepted however again all kvitels will be
accepted and taken happily to the holy Ba'al Shem Tov.


-Dixie Yid

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