Showing posts with label Vayigash. Show all posts
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Monday, January 2, 2012

Shalosh Sheudos - Rav Moshe Weinberger - Parshas Vayigash 5772

Dr. Efrayim Nudman has graced us once again with a write-up of Rav Moshe Weinberger's Torah from Shalosh Sheudos at Aish Kodesh this Shabbos, parshas Vayigash. You can see past write-ups of Rav Weinberger's Shalosh Sheudos Torahs here and get thousands of his shiurim in mp3 format at ravmosheweinberger.com.
Rav Moshe Weinberger
Shalosh Seudos Drasha Parashas Vayigash 5772

 (Original text of the Ksav Sofer is in regular font. Rav Weinberger’s comments are in italics)

Writes the Ksav Sofer on the pasuk (Bereshit45:15) "וַיְנַשֵּׁק לְכָל-אֶחָיו, וַיֵּבְךְּ עֲלֵהֶם""And he kissed all his brethren, and wept over them".

“The midrash (רבה לג,יג) says that just like Yosef was not consoled with his brothers but through his crying, so Am Yisroelis not going to be redeemed but with their crying. Like it says in Yirmiahu(31:8) "בִּבְכִי יָבֹאוּ,וּבְתַחֲנוּנִים אוֹבִילֵם""They shall come with weeping, and with supplications will I lead them".
And according tomy humble understanding as I've explained in other places what the pasuk says in Tehillim (90:15) “שַׂמְּחֵנוּ, כִּימוֹת עִנִּיתָנוּ:   שְׁנוֹת, רָאִינוּ רָעָה”“Make us glad according to the days where You afflicted us, according to theyears where we have seen evil” is that because of  the length of our Galus we have lost the feeling for the good that we had. We have lost our memory and we don't even know what we are missing anymore, and we can't even cry about our loss.”

We don’t even understand what we dont’ have without moshiach. We don’t understand what the Tzura of a Yid should be, whatklal Yisroel should look like.

“But when we will return to our land (with the complete redemption) we willbe able to see with our own eyes what we've been missing all these years.”

At that moment when Hashem will reveal himself to us we will be able to understand it.
“Then our eyes will fill with tears over our loss for all these years and so many generations. And "בִּבְכִי יָבֹאוּ" means that there will be a crying of great joy and at the same time a crying of sorrow and grief over the past as we said.”

Every year in Tisha B’Av we talk about how we can’t even understand what it means to live without Nevuah, without a BaisHa Mikdash, what our lives are missing.

“We see that when Yosef was sold to slavery he was greatly distressed over being separated from his brothers and father. But over time he started forgetting about it. And he called his son Menashe "מְנַשֶּׁה: כִּי-נַשַּׁנִי אֱלֹהִים” “for G’dhas made me forget”.

But when he revealed himself to his brothers he was upset and crying over being separated from such Holy Tzaddikim for so many years. And this is what it says in the Midrash "just like Yosef revealed himself to his brothers weeping, so Klal Yisroel will return weeping”. And it seems to me that this is why it says"and Yosef cried over them"and not that they cried over him.Because they where always crying. Like it says later (Bereshit 43:34) "וַיִּשְׁתּוּ וַיִּשְׁכְּרוּ,עִמּוֹ" "And they drank, and were merry with him". Rashi explains that before that they didn't drink because they were mourning their separation from him. But Yosef wasn't crying before, only at that moment he cried over the past.

The same way in the future "with weeping" of sorrow and joy "they will return" and "with supplications I will lead them". That's how we will be gathered by Hashem, may it be speedily in our days.”

Chazal says about Parshas Vayigash, about the moment of truth when Yosef reveals himself to the brothers: says AbaBardela HaCohen  "ווי לנו מיום הדין, ווי לנו מיום התוכחה” “Woe to us for the day of Judgement, Woe to us for the day of rebuke”At that time when Hashem will reveal himself we will be judged “כפי שהוא ” according to what each one is.

The Chafetz chaim brings a Mashal about the days when armies would go around and come to a village and they would stay in local houses. In the small ones they would put up a soldier or two. But in the big mansions they would set up the general and all the officers. Once it came to pass that an army went through a town and the general and his whole officer corps showed up at the mansion of a wealthy man. The assistant to the general knocked on the the door and when the owner opened and saw them all standing there he complained “how come by my neighbor you put up only one soldier while all these people are coming to me. So the assistant explained “how can you compare yourself to your neighbor? he only has a very small house while you live in this huge mansion.”

That same way when we will be judged by Hashem and will be told “why didn’t you finish Sha’s?” We will also ask “whythe person before us was just asked if he finished Chumash with Rashi, and I’mbeing asked if I finished the whole Sha’s?” And the answer will be that each one is judged according to their own Kochos and their own potential. And we will be able to see with all clarity what our potential was like, what we could have done, and how we did compared to that. Tears will be shed over the years wasted not using our G’d given talents to serve Hakadosh Baruch Hu. Only then will we be able to move forward to serve Hashem with true joy and a full heart.

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Sunday, December 27, 2009

Kol Brisk on Vayigash - Take This Message As You Choose

I don't know about, nor can I verify the message contained in this article, Kol Brisk on Parshas Vayigsh. The author may be inferring too much from one person's reported behavior. If comments leave the productive and enter the ad hominum realm, I will delete or close comments.

לעלוי נשמת הגאון הר"ר אהרן בן הר"ר משה הלוי סאלאווייציק זצ"ל


פרשת ויגש


אוכיחך ואערכה לעיניך - Confrontation with Ourselves


ויתן את קולו בבכי ולא יכלו אחיו לענות אותו –


אבא כהן ברדלא אמר אוי לנו מיום הדין אוי לנו מיום התוכחה יוסף קטנן של שבטים היה ולא היו יכולים לעמוד בתוכחתו הה"ד ולא יכלו אחיו לענות אותו כי נבהלו מפניו לכשיבא הקב"ה ויוכיח כל אחד ואחד לפי מה שהוא שנאמר (תהלים נ) אוכיחך ואערכה לעיניך על אחת כמה וכמה.


The Bais HaLevi asks about this medrash, why the double lashon? What is the difference between יום הדין and יום התוכחה? There is a יום הדין when the misdeeds of a person are shown. But a person has rationalizations and excuses for his actions. Therefore there is also a יום התוכחה. This is when the person's excuses are rendered obsolete through his own actions. For example, a person is found guilty of not giving tzedaka (יום הדין). He justifies himself by claiming that he was very short on money to pay for his basic household needs. This argument is shown to be meaningless, when he is reminded how he would go out to eat in fancy restaurants (יום התוכחה).


Yehuda had been arguing and trying to convince Yosef to have mercy and not to take Binyamin as a slave, out of concern for their elderly father. And then in that stunning moment of truth, Yosef cries out,


אני יוסף! ההעוד אבי חי?!


Listen to your own words! You are so concerned about our father?! Where was all your concern and worry when you sold me as a slave and separated me from our father for all these years?!


The brothers were speechless in face of this reproof.


*


The meaning of the word ויגש is confrontation. Chazal urge us to learn from the story of the story of Yosef and his brothers about spiritual reckoning in general. Yosef orchestrated the sequence of events, to reach a climax of frustration and impasse. Suddenly, it was revealed to his brothers that the very same brother they had sought to destroy was standing right in front of them. The brother they had mercilessly cast into the pit of snakes and scorpions, and then had heartlessly sold into slavery, stood now in front of them, as he had foretold in the dreams, with their destiny in his hands.


Ironic.


Beyond the irony, the Torah is teaching us that we are the ones that create for ourselves the reality of our choice. We can create for ourselves a reality of harmony and love and chessed and meaning. Or we can create for ourselves another kind of reality of power-seeking, jealousies and frustrations and anger. We can do all we want to attempt to escape this reality, to pretend that it is different than it really is. However, at a certain inevitable point, it catches up with us. The example given is a woman in labor. Try as she may to escape her pain, she cannot run away from her situation. The Torah guides us to honestly confront ourselves, and not to look to escape by way of all kinds of distractions and delusions. (Baal Shem Tov)


מן המצר קראתי י-ה , ענני במרחב י-ה.


We must deeply contemplate and connect to our inner world. To become familiar with our desires, aspirations and also insecurities and frustrations. Look around, try to understand the connection between what is happening inside ourselves and what is happening outside ourselves. Hashem is constantly sending us messages and traffic signs. By connecting to where we really are and what we are feeling, we enable ourselves to call out honestly to Hashem.


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One of the very prominent kiruv organization just moved into a multi-milllion dollar, very fancy and impressive new building in a prime location in the Old City of Yerushalayim. The very next week, one of the important couples on the staff of this organization hosted a woman married to a Breslover chossid for a Shabbos meal. Her husband was away from home that week. At the Shabbos table, the host began criticizing and mocking this woman's husband's derech. The woman could not believe her ears. She could not believe that he was serious. Therefore, in a polite and friendly manner, she protested. The host did not stop the tirade. This woman stood up in shock and walked out of the house.

The hostess later come over to the woman's house, but not to apologize. She explained that the way that she and her husband had behaved was based upon the teachings of Gedolei Yisrael of the generation. (Some of the most destructive lashon horah today is done in the name of Gedolei Yisrael.)

Does this high level of aggression and audacity have anything to do with the new fancy building that the kiruv organization moved into? Does this give them a license to attempt to destroy a marriage?

Hashem doesn't need big buildings. Hashem in not interested in big political parties. Hashem distains powerful and aggressive organizations. Hashem wants us to go on a straight path of sincerity and humility. We must open our eyes and ears to all the subtle and not so subtle messages that are coming our way, and not to repress or ignore what is being shown to us.


מן המצר קראתי י-ה , ענני במרחב י-ה.


Let us honestly call out from the real situations we find ourselves in, and He will surely send us the answers.


A gutten Erev Shabbos

From Yerushalayim Ir HaKodesh

Picture courtesy of jpost.com.

Rav Itchie Mayer Morgenstern on Parshas Vayigash - English Excerpt & Full Text

Sorry for the delay but here is Reb Itchie Mayer Morgenstern's Torah on Parshas Vayigash, with English excerpt and full text in both English and Hebrew in pdf form.

“Then Yehudah approached him, and said: ‘Oh my lord, let your servant, I pray you, speak a word in my lord’s ears, and let not your anger burn against your servant; for you are even as Pharaoh. My lord asked his servants, saying: Have you a father, or a brother? And we said unto my lord: We have a father, an old man, and a child of his old age, a little one; and his brother is dead, and he alone is left of his mother, and his father loves him.”

Rashi explains: “‘And [Yehudah] approached him...speak a work in my lord’s ears’—May my words enter your ears. ‘And let not your anger burn’—From here we learn that he spoke harshly to him. ‘For you are even as Pharaoh’—Its simple meaning is that you are as important in my eyes as Pharaoh. The Midrash teaches that, ‘Your end will be to be struck with leprosy just like Pharaoh was by my grandmother Sarah, for having kept her over one night.’ Another interpretation is, ‘Just as Pharaoh makes decrees that he doesn’t fulfill and promises that he doesn’t keep, so do you. Is this what you call “placing an eye” upon someone, that you said that you only want to “place your eye on him?”’ Another interpretation is, ‘You are just like Pharaoh—if you fight with me, I will kill both you and your master.’”

We find in the Zohar on the opening verse of this week’s parshah: “‘And Yehudah approached him’—Two worlds approached one another, to join one to the other so that they would become one, because Yehudah is a king and Yosef is a king. One came close to the other and they were joined one to the other.” This indicates that at the time of Yehudah’s approach toward Yosef, they were united. Yet this appears to contradict the Midrash that Rashi cites, that Yehudah spoke harshly to Yosef and went on the defensive with him.

...The path of contemplative avodah that leads to complete self-forgetting within Hashem’s light is that of Yosef HaTzaddik who reveals the “white light.” The path of contemplation in the manner of tzimtzum—meditation upon the limits and boundaries that serve to further adorn and highlight that which is limitless—is the path of Dovid HaMelech who reveals the “black light.” These are the two “worlds approaching one another, the two pathways of Yehudah and Yosef that one must know and appreciate individually as well as in conjunction with one another. Anyone who does not know how to join them has spiritually descended to Mitzrayim. Exclusive focus on Yehudah-type fiery yearning and effort will deprive him of serenity in his avodah, while exclusive focus on the cool meditative waters of Yosef will sap him of the ability to expend effort in avodah so that he will not be able to achieve completion. This inevitably leads to dissatisfaction and joylessness in his Divine service.

...After all of the contemplation and meditation and dveikus, everything must return to the state of self-nullification, to the “black fire” of realizing that no matter how much one apprehends G-dliness, it is all black and occluded when compared with the truth of Hashem’s light, which is beyond all apprehension.[1] When a created being comes to realize its nothingness and limitation, this realization becomes a vessel that can contain a spirit of prophecy, so that Hashem’s spirit can dwell within him. All the while that a person believes that he actually has the power to achieve closeness to Hashem through his own efforts and does not realize how dependent he is on Hashem’s mercy, he has no proper vessel in which to draw down a spirit of life and vitality from Hashem. He therefore must “return to dust,” to the aspect of Malchus, and understand that all of the levels that he can possibly reach are only reflections of the light that Hashem reveals, but they are as null and void when compared with the truth of Hashem’s light.

[1] Tikkunei Zohar, Tikkun #70

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